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I was wondering if there were any differences between the way one would RTR with parents, and with friends. Like, when I'm telling a friend how I'm feeling after something they have said, and they tell me how they feel, what's next? I mean, do we ask each other why we might be feeling that...
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Hey Rob, I found something useful on the false self. I've heard people talk about this book before, and I found it in my library quite by accident yesterday. Turns out in their catalog the book is listed under its german name although its been translated into English. = P Its "The Drama of the...
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I've Defoo'ed recently. And I'm trying to do some self-exploration. I know for a fact that I'm going to need therapy at some point. But I'm still getting set up in a new place and until I'm more sure of my finances, among other things, I'm on my own. I've gotten writer's...
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Good find Mr. Nathan. I do not suspect there is a good answer for what you could have done in that situation. However, the case your co-worker mentioned is a good exercise in finding out where the true and false self come in. Is "manipulation" from the child a true self or a false self thing...
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I am a college student and I am planning on moving this summer. My parents are paying for my apartment, tuition, and groceries. I am trying my best to make a clean cut from my family. I will be working this term and borrowing the rest of the money I need from my maternal uncle. After this term I will...
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So I have a question. I have some neighbours in my apartment that seem to like propping their door open and then talking loudly inside it. I would prefer they didn't do this, so I used Stef's question method to get them to stop. Naturally, it worked like a charm. However, I have an issue. I still...
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I know this is a really long post, but it was a major event in my life and would greatly appreciate some feedback. I'm new here -- I have made some introductory posts in the appropriate forums. I had the most mind blowing conversation with my mom last night. It ended up with me yelling at the top...
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Things around here the last three weeks have been quite turbulent, as most folks who follow the podcast and the board must already be aware. There has been a good deal of work done by Stef, to link this turbulence to the Mythology podcast series he did a week or so ago. It's a very convincing case...
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I do appologize if this topic has been discussed before in podcasts and on Sunday shows. I would like to know Stef's thoughts about lying and deception from just simple everyday kinds of white lies to cases where people are pathological liars. In severe cases where somebody is a pathological liar...