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  • 08-27-2008 8:13 PM

    Feed Me

     I'm a recovering fundamentalist christian who, through the painful process of exposing my beliefs to the light of rationality, was able to break free from nearly 30 years of indoctrination.  I've since applied this new found tool of rationality to all my beliefs and assumptions about the world around me.   This has naturally led me to the libertarianist philosophy.  I'm pretty new to it and am spending many hours studying.  I've also joined the Libertarian Party of Canada and I hope to run for MP of my riding in Fort McMurray next election.  I'd like to get your feedback about the wisdom of this decision and maybe some of the pro's and con's.  Thanks for your time, I'll enjoy engaging in debate and conversation with you on this exciting forum.

  • 08-28-2008 2:37 AM In reply to

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    First off, congratulations on breaking free of fundamentalism!  I can't even imagine how difficult this must have been, but if the rarity of it is any indication, I'm sure it was quite a feat!

    As for joining the LP of Canada and running for elections, I guess the easiest way to see if we can talk about this is if you'd be so kind as to answer the following question:

    If you're elected, and I disagree with the policies you wish to enact, and due to that disagreement, I refuse to pay for them, would you support me being shot for that disagreement?

    When people kill for a lie, they also murder the truth. - Stefan Molyneux

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  • 08-28-2008 4:44 AM In reply to

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     I would not support you being shot. No.  I wouldn't view my role as a policy maker, but, as a policy breaker looking to work himself out of a job.   I can't think of any policy that I would want to enact.  So I'm not sure that there could be a disagreement, except from those that wish to remain suckling on the teat of the nanny state.  I wouldn't need to shoot anybody to stop sending them money...I don't think.

    All that being said I do worry about how I would innoculate myself against the corruption of power.  I imagine the Parliamentary life of an MP would be pretty hard to let go of.  I also worry about whether this strategy is the best way of attempting to establish freedom.

    What say you?  Can you think of a policy that a Libertarian might want to enact?  Am I going to be able to withstand corruption?

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  • 08-28-2008 9:03 AM In reply to

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    Re: Feed Me

     Congratulations on your achievements and welcome to the board. I am really interested in reading about your history and your struggle to come out of those believes.

    I have a theory, that it is only through profound failure that people are motivated to question such believes. Was that your case?

    On the issue of politics, I have the feeling that you are not clear what you will do if elected. And I think this is the first step in realizing the futility of a political attempt at solving the fundamental political problem. I'm sure you'll be able to resolve the irrationality of this aswell.

    Good luck and let us know.

    I won't let go of past me, but rather invite him to chill at my birthday.

  • 08-28-2008 1:57 PM In reply to

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    Victor you must be really bored to want to hear my history, but, I'll give you the condensed version:

     

    I grew up in a household with a vivid understanding of heaven and hell.  By the age of 5 I became 'born again' in fear of going to hell and being separated from my mom and the eternal torture didn't appeal to me either.  In evangelical (fundamentalist) circles 'born again' refers to reciting  a sinners prayer and believing in the right doctrine and becoming saved.  I recited the sinners prayer several times growing up and amended my beliefs to more specific doctrines that different christian leaders would convince me were required in order to assure my salvation.  I was never sure of my salvation and the fear of hell literally had me crying many nights, worried that my faith wasn't correct.  I remember one time actually worrying that I might be the Anti-Christ that Revelations warned about and that I might be pre-destined to burn in Hell fire forever as Satan's right hand man. 

    I think it was this profound fear of not being 'saved' that drove my quest to find the correct doctrine.  I saw church communities split over doctrines I didn't yet understand, and lots of hurt and resentment being fostered by different church leaders.  I knew I had to make sure I aligned myself with the right group in order to be saved.  I went to Bible College in hopes of sorting out my doctrinal questions and becoming a missionary, or, equivalent noble calling.  The non-denominational Bible College exposed me to hundreds of other doctrines such as the Charismatic Movement, Catholicism, United Church etc.  Instead of clarifying doctrinal questions it confused me even more.  I found my self drawn towards individuals who seemed to have all the answers.  I got caught up in a couple of different groups that by any standard would be considered a cult in that they encouraged me to cut off all ties with family and friends...including my fiance at the time.

     By the time I was 20 my brain hurt from chasing salvation around all the time.  I married my first girlfriend (whom I met in Bible College) at the age of 20, after being caught several times in 'lustful/sinful' situations with her.  I kind of drifted along in marital life and switched my brain off in terms of chasing salvation and just went to my wifes church.  After about 10 years of unhappiness in this marriage, with zero intimacy, spousal infidelity, and fundamental differences in thinking, I was faced with the realization that my life was never going to be happy with this woman whom I married for all the wrong reasons.  That left me with a dilemma...leave my wife and find earthly happiness, but, risk eternal punishment, or, stay unhappy until death.  I chose to divorce her and then set about on a feverish pace of study to see if I could somehow reconcile my salvation with the divorce.  I stumbled on the writings of John Shelby Spong who painted the bible in a light I had never seen before.  I'm embarrassed to say that I never noticed the evil in it before.  After that it didn't take long to realize that belief in a god...at least one as clearly manmade as a religious god... was irrational.   So I guess this probably confirms your theory.  Belief irrationality leads to profound failure.

    As for the politics, I think your comments are fair.  I just finished listening to the post-mortem podcast on Ron Paul and I can see Stef's point about the futility at attempting to solve the problem of politics through politics.  I also remembered another podcast, though, where he mentions that those that work within the state ie. teachers... shouldn't necessarily quit their jobs...implying that they could still do some good as part of state bureaucracy.  I'm not sure what other means I have available to me to advance the cause of liberty.

  • 08-29-2008 12:24 AM In reply to

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    Tim Moen:

     

    What say you?  Can you think of a policy that a Libertarian might want to enact?  Am I going to be able to withstand corruption?

    Well, I'm glad you don't want me shot for not agreeing with you! Big Smile

    As for your questions, I can't think of any policy that a libertarian might want to enact, as enacting a policy that is enforced by guns is against the NAP.  Now, if you could legislate the government into a completely voluntary institution, then I guess it'd not violate the NAP, but there's a couple of problems with that.  First, there's no way in hell anyone else in the parliment would endorse that.  You'd be ridiculed and shunned for even putting forth such a bill, leaving you taking stolen money as a salary and not being able to do what you came in wanting to do.  Second, the fact that you're making cooperation with all government laws voluntary means that the law you're enacting is also voluntary, meaning politicians and other special interest groups who wish to initiate force to support their legislation would be allowed to, unless you want to initiate force to support just this one law..... wow, what a mess!

    Anyway, I think the more important question is can you avoid the corruption inherent in the position.  I don't think so, as humans respond to incentives and there are just too many incentives to allow yourself to be corrupted.

     

    When people kill for a lie, they also murder the truth. - Stefan Molyneux

    “Don’t stop,” yes, no, I don’t, not ever, won’t, can’t. - J.C. Hewitt

  • 08-29-2008 6:06 AM In reply to

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     Tim.

    After reading this, a lot of feelings show up in me telling me how awful it should have been for you growing up.

    I feel like you were scared all the time as a kid, and you had very good reasons to be so. I think you were also scared of the dark and got really quiet and attentive whenever you heard a gost story; paying attention to pick up clues of how to avoid or defend yourself from monsters.

    In my experience, the monsters I really wanted to defend from where my parents, as I later realized my mother was a sadist and my father a violent narcisist. Can you let us know about your parents? It can help us know why you feared you were an anticrist.

    I have the feeling also that you grew up with great gilt for not believing all these things. From this I think that you somehow protected your rational mind from all the insanity around you. If you felt gilt, it was because you knew yourself to be different. That is probably the bravest thing you did growing up. Without this you might not have gotten out.

    How are your believes now? Do you still believe in god?

    I must say that it has taken me a lot of active awareness to rid myself of Deism. And it is begining to pay off, as I don't leave my hapiness to faith anymore, but I go out in pursuit of it.

    About the political issue, a teacher and a politician are very different things, specially an ellected politician. A teacher is hired to do a job. If he is honest and decides to do a great job, he then can work to really help his people, and he has some room to bring truth and exite thought with the students.

    An elected politician has deals and obligations to campaign contributors. In theory, he could get elected and then turn on his contributors and decide to follow his own agenda, but I don't think he would get to untie any of the ropes that strangle us. All he can do is work to show us how tight these ropes are, but there are many more effective ways to do this, specially when the crowd that a politician can gather is of people ralling to get those ropes tied with more strenth. THe people a politician can reach, those who pay attention to them, are not really interested in freedom.

    If he is honest and decides to do a great job, he should quit. What is the best thing you can do with the power to kill people who disagree?

    THere are many more powerful things you can do to advance freedom in your life. One is being honest. When you are honest you show people that it is possible to be free. What enslave us is ilussions, not laws. By being the living proof that we can be free, you set an achievable goal for people. The next thing is being happy. If you get to be happy, then you show people that freedom is better than enslavement. Something that people sort of know, but constantly deny. When you are happy, you proof that they are wasting their time.

    Do you have children? I ask because this is the second best way to advance freedom, in my view. We don't know how a truly free human, brought up from birth to choose his own destiny, looks. If you take on the challenge to have a kid and let this kid decide his future, if you prepare this kid with reason and logic and motivate curiosity and exploration in him, if you connect emotionally and are open and vurnerable with him, you will be the father of a man of the future. And his freedom can never be undone.

    How does this make you feel?

     

    I won't let go of past me, but rather invite him to chill at my birthday.

  • 08-30-2008 6:59 PM In reply to

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    The alternatives I see to my strategy is to 1) participate in the state system and model morality, 2) to live of the grid, or 3) violent revolution.  None of these alternatives appeal to me.  My goal is to be able to live in a stateless society as quickly as possible, and my means should be those which I think will be most effective while not making my life too miserable.  Campaigning on a Libertarian platform likely won't get me elected, but, I'll feel like I'll have made some progress in terms of planting a seed of liberty in my community.  You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.  If by some miracle I should get elected, you are right by saying that I would have all of my work ahead of me trying to get any bill passed.  I would push first and foremost for a constitution that protected everyone from government.  

     

    I already take stolen money to pay for my kids schooling, my healthcare etc. and this makes me inherently corrupt I suppose.  I'm not naive enough to think that one Libertarian politician would be able to dismantle the whole system or even a part of it, but, I think we have to start somewhere and challenge the system in any way our talents allow us.  Sitting around and chatting in forums and debating on-line in an attempt to refine your philosophy to perfection is fun and healthy and necessary, but, at some point don't we have to take action? What other action can you suggest?

     

  • 08-30-2008 8:09 PM In reply to

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    Do you think that all we do here is discuss?

    I think we take more action than anyone...Smile


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  • 08-30-2008 8:46 PM In reply to

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    Tim Moen:
    but, at some point don't we have to take action?
    That's a common saying, but wouldn't you agree that a better one would be "At some point, don't we have to get actual results ?"

    The only results I've seen are the ones I've gotten here.

  • 08-30-2008 9:01 PM In reply to

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    Hi Victor, 

    Good comments and insights.  My mother is loving but full of guilt about everything, starting with my birth (I was illegitimate in an very traditional  christian family).  My mom met and married my father (stepfather I suppose) when I was 5.  He is not capable of much affection, and he was very critical of my mom and her faith.  I don't believe in a god anymore, and I have had a hard time finding any redeeming value in religious belief at least belief in the supernatural.  I think there are a growing number of Christians who do not believe in a literalist interpretation of scripture but use this mythos as a useful way of describing the universe.  They don't believe in a deity or even a historical man named Jesus, but, the refer to God as the universe and the natural laws that it encompasses and find a sense of the mystic using this metaphor as opposed to cold, precise, scientific language.  I find this shift to be refreshing, but, I find my sense of the sacred in science and philosophy.

     

    I get what you are saying about politics.  I may be naive, but, I think its possible to be honest and happy in the political arena.  I am a father, who has his hands full with kids that are getting religious indoctrination from my ex-wife and their grandparents.  The good news is that they are both showing signs of reason and rational thinking at the ages of 10 and 11, so, I'm pretty confident that they'll figure out this fairy tale just like they saw through our lies about Santa with a few quick questions.  Maybe I still have some evangelical quality left in me that wants to spread the gospel of libertarianism any way I can.  Marketing companies don't wait for people to recognize their inherently good brand, they go out and advertise.

  • 08-30-2008 9:17 PM In reply to

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    Agreed... that action is infecting people including myself with the meme of rational morality.  The virus is causing a fever Stef... give me a more substantial  anti-pyretic or I don't know what I'll do...

  • 09-02-2008 5:51 AM In reply to

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    Tim Moen:
    Maybe I still have some evangelical quality left in me that wants to spread the gospel of libertarianism any way I can.  Marketing companies don't wait for people to recognize their inherently good brand, they go out and advertise.
     

     

    I agree in that action in regards to believes is in a way advertisement. So you act what you believe.

    We do take action around here. We act voluntarily, showing honesty and curiosity, being open and reasonable and willing to question everything. We respect the individual freedoms of men and the non-agression principle. So we advertise integrity leads to happiness in all cases, and truth and happiness are one and the same.

    Passing a bill for a constitution means that whoever does not agree, must comply or be shot. This fact breaks UPB in the act of not allowing voluntarism or the willingness to question everything. It breaks the non-agression principle and fundamentally advertises that violence in some cases is good. It advertises that sometimes you can be unilateral, that sometimes you can ignore other people. It sends the message that we act with integrity when things go our way, but we are ready to dump all our values when things don't. It advertises that we can be civil for as long as you do as I approve of you doing.

    This is clearely unreasonable and hignly likely is just an anxiety handling mechanism. It probably comes from the anxiety of realizing that one cannot change fundamentaly corrupt systems or people. And it's even worse when you have all proof that it does not work and is futile in every way. It's like going to a casino trying to get the money to feed your family tonight, just to avoid the realization that one has to get a job. In fact it's worse than that, because in the casino there is a very small chance you may win some cash.

    I'm sure than when you start to apply the personal aspect of the podcast into your life you will readily see the potential for true and abundant joy in your days. And it's a true joy in real and actionable things; and not on afterlives and sunday hysteria.

    I won't let go of past me, but rather invite him to chill at my birthday.

  • 09-02-2008 8:09 AM In reply to

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    You've given me some interesting things think about Victor.  What would a more legitimate first step at dissolving government be?  You seem to imply that by simply living honestly and exuding joy we can bring down government and I don't necessarily disagree.... but this strategy it seems would take hundreds of years.  I'm also not sure that pacifism is a morally defensible position when one is being coerced, threatened, or attacked.  A libertarian constitution in my mind would not break UPB, because, it would allow people the maximum freedom to do what they want despite what someone in government might say.  The only way to break the constitution would be by acting violently against another human, since I believe that self defense is a UPB, I believe that constitutionally allowing an individual this right, especially against government, is the first step to political freedom.  So yes you must comply or risk being shot.

     

    I agree with you about the likely futility of this strategy, but, it still seems slightly less futile than being honest, curious, reasonable, joyful and skeptical... because I could be all those things in a political office.   Fear not, I continue to listen to the podcasts, maybe I'll have an epiphany and understand what you are talking about.

  • 09-02-2008 11:00 AM In reply to

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    Tim Moen:

    You've given me some interesting things think about Victor.  What would a more legitimate first step at dissolving government be?  You seem to imply that by simply living honestly and exuding joy we can bring down government and I don't necessarily disagree.... but this strategy it seems would take hundreds of years.  I'm also not sure that pacifism is a morally defensible position when one is being coerced, threatened, or attacked.  A libertarian constitution in my mind would not break UPB, because, it would allow people the maximum freedom to do what they want despite what someone in government might say.  The only way to break the constitution would be by acting violently against another human, since I believe that self defense is a UPB, I believe that constitutionally allowing an individual this right, especially against government, is the first step to political freedom.  So yes you must comply or risk being shot.

     

    I agree with you about the likely futility of this strategy, but, it still seems slightly less futile than being honest, curious, reasonable, joyful and skeptical... because I could be all those things in a political office.   Fear not, I continue to listen to the podcasts, maybe I'll have an epiphany and understand what you are talking about.

     

     Tim. I want to say that I'm enjoing this interaction. I find you open and reasonable and like the clarity with which you put foward your arguments.

    And you're right to an extent. This strategy takes a long time to bring down government and you're also right in saying that we are being coerced, thus alowing for self-defense or extreme measures.

    But what we don't want to do is beging swinging in the dark here. We don't want to produce a weak strategy that has us spending time, money and effort when it is not going where we want to go.

    Certainly no person or group or movement has ever proposed to dismantle the state to substitute it by nothing else. At least in this the anarco-capitalist movement is different. But this fundamental difference of the movement comes out of realizing the inmorality of the initiation of the use of force. This alone, the argument from morality, produces the biggest shift in political thinking in the history of humanity.

    With that in mind, we should consider then methods for bringing about this change, that are in-line with the core believes of the movement. You don't want to propose capitalism in a comunist country and beging your plan by setting government farms. You would end up alienating those people who are truly after a change in the system, and would atract those who want to fake that they are doing something when in fact they are just keeping the status quo.

    In the same way, if we believe that the NAP is fundamental, then we cannot advocate to institute non-violonce through violent means.

    THere are many podcasts that go into this topic, and rich literature in the series on anarchy that Stef has written.

    I personaly, at the moment at least, prefer to discus things about personal freedom and happiness. I think that the state of things in the world and in your country causes anxiety in you and you feel like you have to take action. In my life I passed through a similar stage. I then realized that the urgency I felt was misplaced, as I realized that it was my life that was under coercion, manipulation, falseness and abuse. It is impossible that I be more affected by the distant and generalized abuse of a state than by the inmediate and much more humiliating abuse of my FOO and other relationships.

    Plus, when you set out to free the world before you free your personal life, you kind of are setting yourself for failure from the start.

    I've seen people who do that; people who choose exactly the wrong method or futile attempt at something, with the unconcious aim of failing, so that they later have the option to say, well I tried and it didn't work, so leave me alone; I've done my part. Like they are chasing closure, not effectiveness.

    Trully, if you want to be effective, then you must realize that the plan to take control of government to try and make it smaller has been tried countless times and has never even slowed down it's growth, much less stop or reduce it. In fact, there is evidence that points out that this may have in fact accelerated the growth of goverment. I'm sure you don't want your choices to end up producing a larger state.

    There is a lot of info on this in the podcasts, but I'm sure you will eventually find more powerful and interesting the arguments of how to improve our lives and our relationships.

    I wanted to ask you something. You said that your children were smart and rational, and that you were certain that they would eventually figure out the falseness of the religious indoctrination they were receiving.

    From your earlier post I got the feeling that you agree with some of the things Stef talks about religion being inflicted upon children, and it being a kind of mental abuse. Please don't take this as an accusation, but my question is, are you confortable knowing that your children are subject to this abuse, and that they are left on their own to try and rescue their sanity, not knowing that their father is an atheist and could be there for them to help them out?

    I won't let go of past me, but rather invite him to chill at my birthday.

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