Blueback, you have started one very interesting discussion. I see some folks here responding ad hominem; Why are you doing that? Do you think it is productive for your cause to bully people who disagree with you away? He is not fundamentally disagreeing with you, or calling your arguments nonsense. He is simply asking some questions I have been playing with, myself, too. Uncle Bob answers them profoundly.
As Stef pointed out in one of the books: Pointing at government is like pointing at a forest. A forest is not an entity by itself, it is a collection of trees. Without the trees, there is no forest. Without the people, there is no government. Government is not the evil entity that wants to rule the world. It is a method people use to achieve their self-interest, even if that self-interest is reflected to others or merely wanting to take part in society.
Are people that support the government evil? Are politicians evil? I do not believe most of them have gone as far as several of the people here have. Going back to the very essence, to the very root of your beliefs and testing them on logic is a very confronting thing to do. I think that most people supporting government genuinly believe it is best for them, where believe is a matter of faith and nurture rather than contemplation.
If we were ever to exist in a free society, it would have to come from the people. People need to realise it, themselves. People need to think, themselves. The way to do this is by talking and debating (not by calling discussion 'unwanted', 'unpleasant' or anything like that). If it is people that support government to control people, then without support the government cannot control.
Someone mentioned slavery. This is such a fine example of how the world is influenced by people and not the other way around. Slavery was ok, it was culture and perfectly normal. Somewhere late in 18th century, early 19th century, the idea that slavery was moral was whiped out in the western world. During the span of just a couple generations the principle of slavery became immoral, socially unwanted and economically uninteresting. If you truly understand what you believe (know?) than you could follow this example. Convince others and do not tell them off for disagreeing.