Yes, I can't recommend the books enough (Everyday Anarchy and Practical Anarchy). They are an extremely efficient way of getting the common questions answered. I mean, it could take you months of emailing back and forth by hand, whereas the books could cover 99% of the questions in one afternoon.
That is not to say that personally explaining and debating should be shunned. To fully be versed in the topic, one-on-one debating is pretty important. Teaching something makes you learn it much better than passive listening.
But the books have saved me a lot of personal debating time, and they rock.
It is not he or she or them or it that you belong to.