I am so sorry for what you are experiencing of course, it is a wrenching and difficult step...
Most people who have gone through this step find that nothing happens for a while, at least a few months. You may get a letter acknowleging yours - that's what most people experience.
Guilt is of course a terrible reason to be in a 'relationship' with someone - if the feeling overwhelms you, you need to talk it out with people you trust. And therapy is essential in this process, as I mentioned on the Sunday show.
Do let me know if there is anything I can do - and please accept my sympathies, best wishes and admiration of course.
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