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  • 06-23-2008 10:54 PM

    • te majev
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    • Fairfax, VA
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    hello everyone

    Hi everyone. Here's my intro:

    I've been a market anarchist for about a half a year now and despite spending an excessive amount of time surfing through all sorts of libertarian sites I never came across FDR 'til recently. I heard the name "Stefan Molyneux" tossed about in the An-Cap cyberdome quite a bit but never really decided to look into it too much. I suppose I thought checking out another Rothbard or Mises book at the library would be a better use of my time than downloading audio of some libertarian podcaster with a French sounding name. That's your problem Stef: us libertarians don't like foreign names unless they're German. Change "Stefan" to "Stef von" and your last name can be "Mölyneux." The umlaut alone would be enough to draw in an additional 6-7,000 libertarians.

    Anyways, I've been listening to the podcasts completely out of order and focusing mainly on the psychology/family related ones. I feel like I found FDR at the perfect time. I was contemplating how rough my childhood was and learning about all the myriad tyrannies of the state but I couldn't quite put two and two together. Now I can see clearly how it all should have made sense... that the two feed off one another and there's really no point in getting rid of the state unless I can solve the mental scars inflicted on me during childhood. 

    The ideas about family really have struck a chord in me. I know I have a long way to go to solve my own FOO problems but I finally feel like I'm really striking at the root this time. Dealing with these issues sometimes brings up a lot of anxiety and things I tried to forget but it also brings me hope.

    I look forward to being part of this community,

    Tristan

     

     

  • 06-24-2008 6:16 AM In reply to

    • Nash
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    • Raleigh, North Carolina
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    Re: hello everyone

    Welcome to the boards, Tristan!

    ---Nash

    "The battle for freedom begins in our own hearts...in our own lives." (Stefan Molyneux)

  • 06-24-2008 7:47 AM In reply to

    Re: hello everyone

    Welcome aboard -- great to have you with us! Smile

    Would you like to talk about those aspects of your personal history that trouble you?


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  • 06-24-2008 7:52 AM In reply to

    Re: hello everyone

    Welcome, Tristan! Nice to have you aboard.

     

    We have reached the open sea, with some charts, and the firmament.

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  • 06-24-2008 1:57 PM In reply to

    • Rick Giles
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    • Joined on 06-18-2007
    • Christchurch, New Zealand
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    Re: hello everyone

    Yeah, gidday.

    I'm in much the same boat myself, even though I first tried to take an interest in the forum a year ago. At first only the philosophy interested me and I ignored the rest as babble. But lately I've found the talk about personal life and relationships to be the more interesting part.

     

     

  • 06-25-2008 12:55 AM In reply to

    • te majev
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    • Joined on 06-24-2008
    • Fairfax, VA
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    Re: hello everyone

    Stefan Molyneux:

    Welcome aboard -- great to have you with us! Smile

    Would you like to talk about those aspects of your personal history that trouble you?

    Yeah, I had a lot of troubles with my parents and school. I always hated school even since preschool. I guess a good illustration of this is that when I went to preschool I didn't talk to anyone, ever, despite being able to talk as well as any other four year old. My parents actually hired a child psychologist because the teachers were worried about it. Apparently they didn't know what to make of it; when they observed me playing with the kids my age next door I was like a normal child: running around, talking, playing, laughing and all. But when I went to school I became silent and withdrawn, literally afraid to say a single word to any of the children there. I remember one kid asking "can you talk?" and I mumbled back "yeah."

    I'm especially curious if you've heard of this type of thing before? Most kid's souls don't seem to be crushed by school quite that quickly at that young of an age. I've always kind of wondered why I was like this.

    Anyways, I always enjoyed learning and reading but hated going to school. For some reason I liked fourth grade but nothing before or after. The shyness thing never quite went away and became worse for some reason in high school. In HS it was almost as bad as preschool; people would make jokes (usually in a sort of friendly way) about me never saying more than three words per hour and stuff like that. For some

     Most of the fights I had with my mom were around my poor performance in school or not doing my fair share of chores. There wasn't really any physical abuse, a small spanking or so when I was really young, but plenty of yelling and unpleasantness. At some of the worst points, like when I almost got held back a year in middle school I remember my mom occasionally going out of town and being so delighted that I would get a few days away from her.

    My dad wasn't nearly as bad. He always lived with us and was there but when my mom was screaming "go to hell!" at the top of her lungs he either just sat there quietly, sometimes told her she should calm down a bit, or went into a different room and distracted himself with something. He was always a bit withdrawn-- often depressed, probably because he hated his job and was pretty submissive to my mom who kind of dominated him. He was often on antidepressants or reading self help books, occasionally in therapy etc.

     

     

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